All of my friends are getting married and it bothers me. Unlike Kygo and Sasha, I see no point in following the lights or the crowd. If someone comes to me right now that I marry him, I’ll pass out😂 You mean me? You wanna do life with me? I’m…

I want to take care of my mother; that woman has tried for me mahn. I’m tired of writing epistles on my friends’ birthdays. I actually have a dream – being a philanthropist. I’ve always wanted to be this from the first time I encountered the word and read its…

(something you should know; in between managing a crazy work schedule and having bouts of impostor syndrome, I’ve not been able to write something I’m proud of) First, I do not find celebrity gists interesting, even if I do, the last thing you’d find catching an update on Gistlover. (I…

On friendship heartbreaks. Two things I do when I’m going through life – rant about it, then cry like a baby. The last time I experienced something close to this was 2019, when a friend hurt me. Got home, ranted to T and wept like a baby with him consoling…

Adulting is tough and having a Nigerian employer is a challenge on its own, you go wan craze. You know when you’re working yourself to fatigue, and it still feels like you’re not doing enough, that state, that’s where I am right now. My body says ‘rest’ but my brain…

11.06.13 – the day my father died. At every thought of this my heart aches. How did I choose that day to pretend I was asleep when he walked in to wake me up for school? When my brother graduated secondary school, my father took it upon himself to wake…

…and that’s okay. Now playing: Summer (6LACK feat. Khalid) I miss writing; I don’t do much of that anymore. The last article I wrote was technical writing inclined and the next on my list isn’t different. Now playing: Stan (6LACK) It’s been ten days being an Operations Manager and my…

(thought you might wanna know: I started this post with the title, ‘birthdays are dress rehearsals for your funeral’, then switched to ‘give me my flowers while I’m still here with you’. A random conversation with a friend gave me this title. While it reads ‘everydayish’, I love it —…

It’s 1:51am and I’m a year older. How do I feel? I’ve read 2 and half mails; yes half, because this human copied a part of my birthday mail for them and included it in theirs for me. Who does that?😂 I can’t lie… I’m happy, I’m filled with gratitude…